Tis the season of gift giving but there are FREE gifts that we should be doling out every day of the year. Below are the 10 important gifts that you should be thinking about. These are the ones that really matter, will deepen relationships and just make the world a better place.
1- GIVE ENERGY– Energy is contagious. Be upbeat and enthusiastic whenever you interact with anyone.
2- GIVE A SMILE– Lead with a smile. A smile is contagious, cost nothing but gives so much.
3- GIVE EXTRA EFFORT– Do that one extra thing for someone and it will make them feel special and appreciated. Just lend a helping hand when one is needed.
4- GIVE TIME– This is our greatest asset. Write a note, make a phone call, spend time with others.
5- GIVE A COMPLIMENT– It must be sincere. There is a correct way to give a compliment. You make a statement; tell why you noticed or it is important to you; ask a question about the thing, idea that you are giving the compliment about.
6- GIVE PATIENCE– Everyone has different perspective on life. Slow down and listen. Be present, ask questions and just listen.
7- GIVE ATTENTION– Dial into the other person’s needs. Stop talking and listen. Ask questions, lean in, no distractions, comment and use open body language. Lock in.
8- GIVE THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT– If you are right it does not mean that the other person is wrong. Don’t jump to conclusions. Question to understand.
9- GIVE RESPECT– The sun does not revolve around you. You and your opinions or needs are not more important than others. Be polite and hospitable.
10-GIVE THANKS- Appreciate what you have and what others give to you.
If you are not happy with what you have it ultimately means you are
unhappy with who you are.
Merry Christmas